Read the following statements and see how many apply to you in a significant way. The more statements you agree with, the more likely you are a FIVE – the OBSERVER.

1. I tend to keep my feelings to myself.

2. I hold onto what I have and gather items I might need to use some day.

3. I don’t know how to engage in small talk very well.

4. Intellectually I like to synthesize and put together different ideas.

5. I go blank when I’m embarrassed or when someone asks how I feel right now.

6. I need much private time and space.

7. I tend to let others take the initiative.

8. I often sit back and observe other people rather than get involved.

9. I tend to be something of a loner.

10. I seem to be more silent than most others. People often ask me what I’m thinking.

11. I have trouble reaching out or asking for what I need.

12. If an issue comes up, I like to first work it out by myself, then go discuss it with others.

13. Asserting myself is very difficult.

14. I try to solve my problems by thinking.

15. I like to put things in perspective, to step back and take everything in. If I leave anything out, I accuse myself of being so simplistic or naive.

16. I tend to be stingy with my time, money and self.

17. I really hate it when I don’t get my money’s worth.

18. When I’m upset with myself or others, I frequently think of myself or them in terms of “fools, “idiots,” “stupid.” etc.

19. I have a very soft tone of voice and people often have to ask me to speak up. This irritates me.

20. I tend to be more a taker than a giver. (Beesing et al, The Enneagram, p. 35)

If you found yourself agreeing with many or most of these statements, then you might consider that the FIVE type is your preferred position, especially if you identified with the descriptor on the previous page. If this is so, then click here to proceed. Otherwise, click here to visit the next type. Or click here to return to the summary page.