Read the following statements and see how many apply to you in a significant way. The more statements you agree with, the more likely you are a FOUR – the INDIVIDUALIST.
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Most people don’t appreciate the real beauty of life.
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I have an almost compulsive nostalgia for my past.
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I try to look casual and natural.
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I have always had an attraction for symbolism.
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People don’t feel as deeply as I do.
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Other people often lack the capacity to understand how I feel.
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I like to do things properly and with class.
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My environmental surroundings are very important for me.
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I like the theatre very much and fantasize myself as being on the stage.
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Manners and good taste are important to me.
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I don’t like to think of myself as being ordinary.
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I can get preoccupied with suffering, loss and death.
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I’m sometimes afraid that just my normal feeling response won’t be enough.
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I seem to absorb rather easily most of the feelings of a group, so much so that frequently I lose a sense of where my own feelings leave off and where others begin.
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I seem to be more bothered than most about the termination of relationships.
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I resonate with the “tragic clown” figure, smiling through the gloom.
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I have been accused of being aloof.
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I find myself swinging back and forth between highs and lows. Either I’m very up or very down. I don’t feel very alive when 1’m in the middle.
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People have accused me of being overly dramatic, but they really don’t understand how I feel.
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The arts and artistic expression are very important me as a means of channelling my emotions. (Beesing et al, The Enneagram, p.29-30)