Develop and enhance your natural gifts: distance, sobriety, wisdom
Work on your main problem area: overinterpreting your experience
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learn to experience your feelings;
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learn the art of mindfulness, and be present to your actual surroundings; notice everything around you;
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be aware of a scarcity mentality;
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be more open with your life;
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notice the range or narrowness of your areas of competence; how does it feel to relate to others outside your areas of expertise?
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venture out of your comfort zone, away from your strategy of independence;
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release yourself from the pressure of being an expert;
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when you find yourself refining an idea too much, encourage yourself to actually move to action;
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initiate contact with friends;
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when you are with friends, and you find yourself disengaging through cynicism or sarcasm or criticism, see if you can ask yourself why you do that;
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when you engage in a heated debate, ask yourself how important it is to drive your point home? What effect are you trying to produce in the other?
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treat yourself with a luxury;
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pursue an activity to connect with your body – yoga, martial arts, a sport, running;
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cultivate your inner world in order to find the courage to devote yourself to the outer world
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what kinds of situations cause you to detach emotionally? Can you figure out why?
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spend time with your inner world until it is experienced as less threatening.
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Spiritual practice:
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Follow Jesus as Wisdom teacher
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The compulsion of the FIVE is greed, hoarding material goods, time and affection as well. Matt 14:13-21, the antisocial stance of the FIVE is unnecessary since people share across economic, religious and ethnic lines. In this parable, people share and everyone gets enough.
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Gospel contemplation: the story of Bartimaeus
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See if you can let the stories of the Bible touch you without you having to do a critical analysis beforehand;
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Read the Beatitudes and see how many of Jesus’ exhortations coincide or clash with your own attitudes;
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Read the biography of a theologian or a scientist you admire, and pay attention to how they live out their faith;
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As Lectio divina, spend time with Jesus’ admonishment that unless we be like children, we do not enter the Kingdom;
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As Gospel Contemplation, enter the story where Jesus admonishes to overlook the straw in your opponent’s eye when you ignore the beam in your own.
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watch out for warning signs that you are too stressed as a FIVE:
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you find yourself increasingly isolating yourself from people who matter
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you are increasingly neglecting yourself, your body, your health
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you suffer from chronic insomnia, nightmares, and other sleep disorders
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you refuse help and are downright hostile toward it
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you find yourself thinking about ways to end it all
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